When a Jewish Girl Is Born Traditionally, a baby girl is named at the synagogue during a Shabbat Service. The parents and the newborn baby are called before the Torah where special prayers are recited and the Hebrew name is finally announced. A Simchat Bat (Joy of Daughter) Naming Ceremony may also be performed. This very special service is observed by many young Jewish families. It shares the significant elements of the Brit Milah ceremony. It is an intimate experience filled with joy and significance for all those who attend. Each Simchat Bat Ceremony is specifically designed to meet the expectations of the parents and the entire family. As a father of two daughters, I can fully attest to the beauty and significance of this ceremony. Simchat Bat Basics Prior to the Ceremony: Gather your thoughts together on how you might want to make this occasion special. I encourage parents and grandparents to write a short letter or poem for the baby describing his namesake and what special hopes you have for the future. This is a lovely keepsake that can be shared (or not) at the ceremony. Any family or friends who you would like to participate should be given their honors ahead of time. You may also choose to have one or more candle lighters...usually close female family (grandmother, aunt) and/or friends. Some family or friends might like to write a special prayer for this important event. I will need one sturdy medium sized table for the ceremony. It is very nice to adorn the front edge of the table with family objects providing not only an attractive setting but also a bit of privacy for your daughter during the ceremony. I suggest a table cover (perhaps a table cloth or family chuppah). Family photos (especially of namesakes or special old relatives), a small vase of flowers, family candle sticks and Kiddush cups are lovely additions. A sturdy chair will need to be placed next to the table to serve as kisei shel Eliyahu...the chair of Elijah. I suggest hanging a family tallit over the back for adornment. Finalize the baby’s Hebrew name I will also need both parents Hebrew
names...if you don’t know them, please look at your ketuba. * Feed the baby 30-60 minutes before the ceremony. After the ceremony I will answer any final questions you may have. It would be my honor to attend your daughter’s Simchat Bat Ceremony. ***** Dr. Richard I. Roberts - Certifed Mohel |